Meet Kate Engler, the couples and sex therapist writing a book on Gen X relationships

"After years of trying to sort out my own relationship stuff and then hearing the same things over and over from other Gen X couples, I set out on researching the “why” of it all."

I’m 48, currently living in Evanston, Illinois, with hopes of moving overseas one day. I’m a licensed couples and sex therapist in private practice and work primarily with Gen X couples. I’m also a Fair Play Method facilitator. (Fair Play helps couples and families divide domestic and emotional labor in an equitable way.) I teach workshops and write abo…