Reiki Master Daydree Horner (aka Good Love Coach) helps women find their pleasure
Can Reiki lead to orgasm? The answer is yes, and Reiki Master Daydree Horner provides a how-to called “A Solo Reiki Practice for Orgasm” here in Goop. You’re welcome.
When Daydree began offering couples’ Reiki at her Santa Monica practice, she noticed a pattern: “The first thing they’ll say is, ‘We don’t seem as connected as we used to,’” she says. But once they’ve opened up, they get more specific: “We don’t seem to be having sex the way we used to.” Or “I’m not having orgasms with my partner the way I used to.”
In this interview, the renowned energy healer digs into how reiki works.
The Midst: Why did you start MyOshun, your Reiki energy healing and holistic coaching business?
Daydree Horner: In college, I took an elective acting class where I did a scene from The French Lieutenant’s Woman. I played the Meryl Streep character, Sarah. In the scene, the character is processing her relationship. I was captivated by the character and role. I thought: “This is what I want to do,” so I became an actor after leaving college.
But what I didn’t realize was that I wasn’t actually fascinated with acting. It was Sarah’s exploration of human behavior, relationships, and finding inner peace that moved me. What an aha moment! However, I didn’t figure all of this out until years after acting professionally. When I did, I found my soul’s purpose.
Just before I met my husband on Match, I planned to leave the site, just as he joined. I’d become so disappointed with the Match process that I called their 1-800 number to cancel my subscription. The woman who answered was supportive of my frustrations and suggested, “maybe just wink at someone once in a while”. So, I winked at a man and my now-husband responded.
I told three of my girlfriends about my new beau and how we met. They all said: “Everything you did leading up to this moment is a business model.” You’ve got to make this a program or something. So, I did.
While all of this was going on, I also experienced Reiki healing on a road trip with friends after I got carsick. My friend used Reiki to heal my stomach and throbbing headache. Being a practical native Brooklynite, I didn’t initially believe in energy healing, but I knew that I needed to learn more about Reiki.
Plus, I started feeling energy flowing through my hands and wondered what that was about. Later, I became a Reiki Master Teacher and certified success coach focusing on relationships. I started MyOshun in 2008.
What is Reiki and how do you incorporate meditation and Reiki into your coaching practice?
Reiki is a natural Japanese holistic therapy where subtle, stationary hand positions are placed on the torso and head, or hovered above, over points of tension to restore balance and stimulate wellness within the emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual bodies. Reiki means “universal life force energy” in Japanese, which is shared from practitioner to client, and vice versa.
In my coaching practice, I incorporate meditation into every session. Meditation feels intuitive for me because the purpose of coaching is to work through something that’s bothering you, so being at peace about it is helpful.
We don’t change unless our subconscious changes — and the subconscious can be accessed through meditation and Reiki. So there is much more ease in releasing what no longer serves the client when meditation is utilized with coaching.
Usually I interject a guided meditation intuitively during the coaching sessions. Occasionally, I’ll send Reiki energy at the same time. If a client wants Reiki specifically, they sign up for one of my Reiki session packages. Reiki is a modality that works with our energy system. So it’s best to have several sessions for a true transformative experience. The sessions include Reiki, assessments of the energy centers, plus coaching toward healing moving forward.
MyOshun is designed for transformation. You help women who are struggling with self-pleasure, relationships, and making change. How do you transform people?
Women are powerhouses. We are amazing creatures, but we need transformation sometimes. We can power through our entire lives, making all kinds of money, creating babies and businesses, but completely skip out on our own pleasure. We can make a good living but not actually enjoy what we do or have a long-term relationship, but not experience true intimacy. It’s about knowing when it’s time for a transformation.
As GynoGirl Dr. Sameena Rahman said, “As a whole, women don’t value pleasure, across the world.” That’s my thing — I help women experience pleasure in their work, relationships, and life in general.
What’s an example of how you’ve helped someone become a love magnet for the right person?
I had a client who was frustrated with the dating scene. She wondered if she’d ever meet the right person in her mid-50s. She’d been in some long-term relationships, but something wasn’t quite clicking.
She enrolled in my Good Love Program and we started uncovering her toxic ties with past relationships. We then figured out what she really needed in order to have a healthy union. We also looked at her energy system and what was required for her to be properly aligned with a partner.
We identified her soul’s purpose and created her vision for love based upon an empowering exercise I created, designed to make attraction an easier process. And, before we even finished the program, she became a love magnet, and met her now husband. I spoke with the two of them just the other day. So nice that they’re in their joy!
Contact Daydree Horner of MyOshun
Services: Coaching, healing Reiki therapy, Good Love Program
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